Most research studies indicate that most boys have been exposed to pornography between the ages of 8 years old and 10 years old. It is very easy to access pornography in today's world. However, with the internet being available on laptops, game centers and phones most people stumble on to pornography by accident and very easily. Many parents may feel this issue doesn't apply to their son. Any time a boy has sex, he can get a girl pregnant. Most importantly no one discusses with boys to think about are they emotionally and financially ready to be a father.
However, no one discusses how to treat a sexual partner, diseases you can catch and the importance of mutual consent. They typically learn about sex by talking to friends, having sex or the most common way watching pornography. It is unusual if anyone sits down with a teenage boy and discusses sex. Otieno claims that a number of his peers have been led on by women and made to have sex against their wish and that this would be deemed as statutory rape if the victims were female.Įvans Munene, a freelance journalist, says he also was groped and his member nearly hurt by a waitress in a strip club.This article is going to discuss the epidemic of addiction to porn that many teenage boys and men are dealing with today. In the morning, I realized we had unprotected sex and I had to run to the hospital for drugs,” says Otieno. But I know I was more ‘stoned’ than she was. “I was drunk and I don’t remember what happened. While incidents of adult women raping men are not commonly reported, Gerald Otieno*, a 26-year-old intern, claims to have had non-consensual sex with a female stranger he met in a club along Moi Avenue. She would then take him to the bedroom and defile him. The boy narrated how the house help would force him into the bathroom as she showered and tell him to stare at her naked body. Her son started complaining of pain when passing urine and when he was tested, he was diagnosed with an STI.ĭoctors at The Aga Khan Hospital said he was suffering from a rare STI that combines different types of bacteria. Her employer, Njeri Kinyanjui, was desperate, and needed someone to look after her child and do chores as she went about her business. In April 2014, The Nairobian reported that Naomi Bonareri had been charged in court for infecting her employer’s seven-year-old son with a sexually transmitted infection (STI) after working with the family for only two months. Locally, it is house helps who have been accused of raping and sexually molesting boys under their charge. But she would have to be a very dominant partner in the relationship.” The woman could ‘rape’ the man, if only to win him back. She says that, “It could happen with couples who have gone for long without sex. The psychologist also noted that a man can be raped by his wife, although there are no studies to establish that. They rape before they are raped,” says Mbaum.
Alternatively, the women could have been raped when young and vowed never to be victims again. It is a pathological way of seeking sexual satisfaction. “Male rapists are aroused by inflicting fear on women.
I am sure that explains all what we have been witnessing.”Ĭatherine Mbaum, a counselling psychologist with Arise Couselling Service, says there is little difference between male and female rapists. Some people think that they can ward off bad by using semen. “The thinking is that it can be used for regeneration of life, since they are a source of life (biologically). A Zimbabwean sociology professor told CNN that the harvested semen was used for ritual purposes. “Most of the men said the women would offer them spiked drinks or force them to have sex at gunpoint,” reported CNN. One victim reported that after the rape, some women demanded that they cuddle and talk. At least 17 men positively identified the women who had assaulted them in a Harare court. The women were arrested with the ‘rubbers’ 300 kilometres south of Harare when their car was involved in an accident.įor two years, before the famous arrest, women in Zimbabwe had targeted male hitchhikers whom they drugged and extracted semen from.
In 2011, police in Zimbabwe charged three women who had been found in possession of 33 used condoms, with 17 counts of aggravated indecent assault.